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Why People Do Not Set Goals
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You would think that if goal-setting was the ultimate skill and
the secret to success, that everyone would develop their own goals
and learn to achieve them. Unfortunately, the world is not perfect.

I know with certainty that everyone will experience a more successful
and enjoyable life if they learned to effectively communicate.
Anthony Robbins, in my opinion the greatest modern day personal development coach, said,
“The way we communicate with others and with ourselves ultimately determines the quality of our lives.
” Effective communication determines the quality of your life with others
while self development determines the quality of life with yourself.
Self development forms your inner communication and progresses you towards building interpersonal relationships.
There are several reasons why people do not set goals, which are similar to why people do not learn effective communication.

The first reason people do not set goals is they fail to see its importance.
Like people that avoid developing their communication and other aspects of themselves,
they do not see the importance of setting goals.
I have met people unbelievably resistant to developing their communication.
They have actually been insulted to hear they need to improve their communication!
Every person can always communicate more effectively to improve their life.

 

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The second reason people do not set goals is they fear criticism.
People criticize for many reasons.
In the first chapter on criticism in my Communication Secrets of Powerful People,
I mention the most common reason for criticism is a desire to improve people.
Other reasons include a habitual perception of faults in
people, anger, a belief that greatness cannot be
achieved, and a hidden agenda to hold people back
from reaching their goals. Average people do not want
others to go beyond average.
A person can fear setting goals because each time
they have set goals in the past, others have criticized them
for dreaming big. Others impose their self-limiting beliefs
through criticism instilling fear within the person.
Think of receiving criticism as a poisonous needle injected into your body.
It slowly controls and destroys what you want.
The destructive thought of fear controls
the person from achieving anything remarkable.
To overcome the fear of criticism, put bluntly, screw what people think.
Do not allow people to destroy your life with their beliefs.
You would not tie a one tonne boulder to your leg
when swimming so stop tying people’s limiting words to your mind.
Society is filled with endless garbage to prevent you from achieving your goals.
If you want something, go and get it by setting and
achieving personal goals with the directions given in this article.